Tuesday, February 4, 2014

A New Order

Just like Alexa's had to adapt to the changes in the house, I too have gone through an adjustment period.  Similar to Alexa having to share my divided attention, I'm realizing that I have to share Alexa's attention as it's no longer just the two of us in the evening.  Alexa's world is no longer entirely Mommy-centric.

Tonight Damon had the night off, so he graciously offered to pick up Alexa from school.  When I heard his car pull into the garage, I eagerly awaited Alexa's entrance.  As soon as they came into the house, I quickly realized there's been a significant shift in the pecking order of the Hovannisian house.  Until a few weeks ago, Alexa would enthusiastically burst through the door calling out, "Mommy!"...I was always her go-to person.  Tonight, however, was a different story.  When she came into the house, her priorities were (in order) Alstott, Ani and myself as a distant third; Alstott and Ani were neck-and-neck.  Yes, I have been trumped by the dog!

Although it's a slight blow to my ego (lol), I am genuinely excited for Alexa to develop a bond with Ani.  Having four siblings of my own, I cannot wait for Alexa and Ani to experience the relationship that goes along with having a sibling - including all of the ups, downs and a little bit of sibling rivalry.  With a nearly five-year age difference, it may take a little longer for them to feel this closeness, but both Damon and I fully expect these girls to become BFF's (not taking anything away from Alexa's BFF Gabriella!).  Maybe we're being a bit naive, but we think the five-year age gap could alleviate some of the sibling rivalry.  Check back with me in ten years - - it may be an entirely different story :)  For now, we'll enjoy the situation at hand: a doting big sister who is gaga to have a baby at home again!

I'll simply work on reasserting a little bit of clout with Alexa...I need to at least regain status above Alstott!

Alexa's enthusiasm isn't 100-percent reciprocated these days....
A very proud big sister - - Ani's happy not to be smothered!


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