Granty continues to be in the forefront of all of our minds, especially as the one-month anniversary (December 25th) of his passing draws near. I was packing his "GVH" tote to use as a carry-on for the trip, and Alexa was in his room with me as I pulled out some of his personal effects from that last hospital stay. Alexa pulled out his little green, rattle ball and said, "Aww....Granty's ball. Why did he have to die?" Good thing she's easily distracted because I had no answer for that...trust me, I wish I did. Another reminder came on the airplane - I had booked the tickets in early September (well-before any of the major life-changing events), so Grant was booked on the reservation as a lap child. The flight attendants were in the back of the plane trying to find the elusive lap child that was included on the flight's manifest. I had to tell them that originally my son was going to be flying with us but the plans had changed. Argh.
It is good to be home in St. Louis - Alexa's been in heaven with the attention she's receiving from her grandparents and godmother (Auntie Karen). Alexa's teacher also helped to improve my mood, as she sent me one of the pictures from the pajama/cookie decorating party earlier this week (Thank you, Ms. LeAnna!) - - the picture is below.
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| One happy cookie decorator....looks like she was also the official icing taste tester. |

Happy to hear you you're safe and sound in St. Louis. Deep down in my heart I wish you were here in Fresno with us. Just being selfish. I want you to know that Skip and Madeline are the ones that took the Christmas tree to Grant's gravesite. I will go to the see him tomorrow. Christmas eve. Wish Alexa and all the Niehoff family, Merry Christmas
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Welcome to St. Louis! We cannot wait to see you!
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ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas Eve. Glad to hear that you made it to St. Louis safely. Sounds like Miss Alexa-Malexa was quite a trooper on an even longer flight than usual. Oh, I forget. I'm not suppose to say that or she won't be my friend! Chuckle. In my shopping mania, I've noticed more "Princess" themed items for my own real princess, Alexa Siroon. The easels with Granty's pictures still stand in my kitchen. I look at his beautiful eyes throughout the day. I especially like the one with the "ng" tube. I feel his presence surrounding me. We may be a bit partial, but Vernon and I feel we have the most terific grandchildren ever! Wishing Grandma Ne-Ne, Papa Gene and the rest of the Niehoff family a happy holiday. Can't wait until we see you. My love, Nana-Banana/Nana Hovey.
Welcome to STL. It was awesome to see you guys tonight. So glad we got to talk for a little and i seemed everyone there wanted to talk to you guys. Have a Merry Christmas and I weill see you all on Thursday. Love, Kevin
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